The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? It turns out there is one. In this article we will show you where it is and how to stimulate it correctly.
What is the male G spot?
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and is not an attempt to attract more readers. Another question is what is more accurate to call that P spot. And to most of the general public, it is generally known as the prostate.
Located between the base of the penis and the rectum, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, which makes it an ideal spot for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you associate the prostate with sexual play, a man can achieve two (or even three) times stronger orgasms than usual.
How to prepare for a search
Many men are full of prejudices related to anal sex. Although prostate stimulation, of course, cannot change the orientation of a heterosexual (and if it can, then he is not so heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to seek the P-spot, you must first of all get your partner's consent. In addition, experts advise telling him in detail what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus doesn't produce natural lubrication, it's important to make sure you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and odorless, so you don't accidentally irritate your skin). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
Rules of stimulation
So now you know where the P-spot is and your husband doesn't mind trying. What is expected next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on the right actions on their own, so consider the following techniques:
- The "come hither" move.Making movements with your index finger, as if you are asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently so as not to scare your partner, but at the same time actively to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase the speed.
- Circles and shakes.Circular and swinging movements also work well, and their speed should also be gradually accelerated. Keep in mind that too much pressure on the prostate can cause an urge to go to the bathroom, so it's best for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal play. With them, in the same way, you can change the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not miss anything, but also vice versa.
In conclusion, we remind once again that body parts have no sexual orientation, so a couple can safely practice anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if during the process the partner says that he does not like it and should stop, you should listen to him. After all, we are all different. You can try it next time it's ready again, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.